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Recapturing Marriage: How Blue State Conservatism Can Reinvigorate the Pro-family, Pro-marriage Agenda

California conservatives should co-opt the recent Supreme Court decision, embrace the importance of marriage as a unifying and positive institution in America, and propose a strong pro-marriage, pro-family agenda.

The California Supreme Court’s decision in In re Marriage Cases, which concluded that the California Constitution required recognition of same-sex marriages, reverberated around the country.  Across the nation liberals rejoiced as conservatives bemoaned the ruling. Its effects, however, hold far more promise for conservatives than their progressive counterparts.

Was the Court’s decision unwarranted judicial activism and social tinkering?  Probably not.  The California Constitution has always been construed as more protective than the US Constitution.  While social engineering is better left to the Legislature and the People, the mostly Republican-appointed Court was not clearly outside the bounds of its jurisprudence.  Indeed the Court’s recognition of the importance of marriage as an institution is a conservative refrain.

While Senator McCain and the GOP nationally are well served politically by assailing the decision, California conservatives would be wise to embrace the decision, and co-opt the issue for their own.  The Supreme Court largely missed the importance of marriage as the most favorable forum for productive childrearing, lost as it was in the mysteries of love and procreation, neither of which are necessarily aided by the legal bond.

But California conservatives need not ignore the truly important functions served by marriage.  Conservatives are faced with a choice: rally around a voter initiative to amend the Constitution and reverse the Court’s opinion, or embrace same-sex marriages and work for a pro-family agenda which recognizes the importance of all productive marriages.

There is relatively little evidence that same-sex marriages threaten traditional marriages.  The Netherlands example, where post-legalization declines in traditional marriage followed legalization of same-sex unions, is just as likely caused by that nation’s and Europe’s generally libertine decay in a shared culture and pro-family mores.  While the data is not yet clear on the effects of same-sex marriage, many other facts are clear. No-fault divorce, destructive and wrong-headed family and support laws, and the degradation of social mores valuing human life and strong families have all been far more pernicious to the family structure.  It is here that blue state conservatives can make a difference.

While many gay rights’ advocates have conceded their interest lies not in securing marriage, but only in the recognition of the right to it, there is no reason to believe that those same-sex couples who do marry are any less interested in raising productive, contributing families.  Same-sex married couples are no less interested in safe communities for their children, good schools, or economic security.  In fact, given a stake in them, they have more reason to support those goals.  Here, conservatives have their real chance at both blue state political success and strong pro-family policies.

California conservatives should co-opt the Court’s decision, embrace the importance of marriage as a unifying and positive institution in America, and propose a strong pro-marriage, pro-family agenda.  A good start would be tax breaks for married couples, and reform of the divorce and child support laws to place value on marriage and the protection and support of productive child-rearing.  Other goals abound to which same-sex couples ought to have no objection. For one: school choice.  Are gay couples any more likely to want their children educated in a decaying and wholly ineffective public school monopoly?  Two: increased parental rights including not only school choice, but parental notification laws.  Is there some reason why a gay couple would find it acceptable to have their daughter subjected to a brutal and harmful procedure without their input or guidance?  Three: safe communities and crime reduction.  There is no reason why the gay community benefits from a rising tide of crime in California cities like Oakland, Sacramento, and Fresno. The desire to keep one’s family safe is universal.

Indeed, same-sex parents, confronted for the first time with the results of failed liberal policies on families and marriages, may find themselves at odds with long-time political associations.  Most importantly, conservatives could drive the debate away from the divisive Balkanizing politics of the Left — which puts everyone in a box labeled by their race, gender, and orientation — to a more beneficial dynamic in which people embrace their interests and ignore the bloc voting which has for too long empowered the Left.

This strategy is concededly not yet a Bible-belt or Midwest tactic. However, in the future it may well be.  Polls suggest majorities of young people ambivalent or supportive of same-sex marriage.  Polling from the last several national elections also suggests waning support for abortion, and a higher percentage of young voters are pro-life than ever before. Advancing only an attack on the gay lifestyle which ignores the shared interests of many if not most same-sex couples in lower taxes, greater growth, safer communities, and strong families will spell defeat. For blue state conservatives, the goal should be to advance a pro-family agenda which includes same-sex marriages and focuses on strong pro-marriage policies.

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54 comments to Recapturing Marriage: How Blue State Conservatism Can Reinvigorate the Pro-family, Pro-marriage Agenda

  • nick adams

    BobVB
    Please do try to keep up. At this point I don’t know what you are talking about anymore.

    I made no assertions about nature, just challenging AMAI, who did make an assertion (gays were put here as a form of birth control, which also suggest other biological processes/mutations exists for population control, including diseases). I’ve see no evidence of either. If anything, I am trying to point out that AMAI does not have nature’s contact information in an address book.

    As for you and I living in different universes? Thanksfully, yes.

  • sedonaman

    BobVB:

    “I’m not your research assistant…”

    Nor am I yours. You are the one making the claim. It’s up to you to prove your claim, not me.

    The fact you are asking me to prove what you are saying indicates that you have no proof.

    “What started as a demand for basic civil rights has mutated into a Leftist demand to overturn the whole society, along with its traditions and norms, its standards and laws, its history and heroes.”

  • “This discussion has become a riot. BobVB and AMAI are saying that because homosexuality exists, it is normal. Well, substance abuse and addiction exist, but it would be difficult to convince people that those activities are normal. Pride, envy, greed, avarice, wrath, lust, and gluttony exist, but who agrees they are normal behavior?”

    And what’s wrong with Pride – that is definitely a very normal behavior. Lust? Normal. Greed? Normal. Actually, all those things ARE normal. Not to say every single person has substance abuse problems, but I think a lot of people have some kind of problem with which they deal on a daily basis and which could be classified in one of the categories you list.

    Normal does not mean every person has it. It can also mean that it occurs with enough regularity to not be a rarity. Siamese twins with two heads – definitely not normal and statistically is how many out of every million births?

    Look – I’m no Leftist, but I’m also not a religious person either. I do not subscribe to any religion, I don’t buy what they are selling.

    Oh, and Nick – I apologize if I ascribed something to you that another poster said.

    As for homosexuality being a birth control mechanism, it is possible. As a species we’ve only just begun to acknowledge the very existence of gays, let alone study and think about the hows and whys. But think about this: over the millenia all kinds of creatures have developed, mutating to better adapt to their environments. How long have our current species be on the planet? What is it – 10,000 years or something? Remember the planet is 4.5 billion years old. Who knows what kind of changes it’s gone through? We certainly are just at the threshold of discovering.

    Here’s my theory – as an adaptive mechanism to ensure the continued survival of a species that tends to over-produce and then consume all the food, what if our species mutated in order to prevent the population from growing too fast? It’s a theory, is all. And it’s not the only explanation for why homosexuality evolved. Here’s another – what if it developed in order to keep people going emotionally during times of war or loss or exploration? If all the men go to war, the women will keep the home fires burning lol. If the men go exploring and become separated from their homes, they’ll keep each other company, keeping their spirits up.

    Again, it’s just a theory. The point is – look at the world with an active mind, not with a mind that has absorbed fairytales designed to control and direct you to hate anyone who is different. The continuation of the species does depend on there being new generations of people. But it’s not necessary that every one of us reproduce. There are other ways to contribute to society, equally worthy and equally valid.

  • BobVB

    sedonaman, you are the one claiming that marriage isn’t a right in direct contrast to litanies of US court decisions just a Google search away that say it is. No I’m not going to research the obvious for you – that is the request of a troll, not someone interested in ernest discussion.

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